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Are you addicted to sex toys? Would you rather “spend time alone” rather than spend time with you? What does it mean when your girlfriend, wife, or lover seems to value alone time more than sex?
Do any of these questions sound familiar to you? If you are like the millions of men who care about their ability to satisfy their partner in the bag, the truth is that a woman who enjoys sexual “accessories”, especially her time alone, can be very intimidating.
Why? Because for many men, it’s a sign that they may NOT be doing the right thing and that their woman is literally taking her sexual satisfaction into her own hands.
Is it possible for a woman to become “addicted” to sex toys?
The truth is, like any other pleasurable behavior that can become obsessive, or compulsive, it is.
The good news?
It’s rare, and a woman who really compulsively uses any kind of instrument of personal pleasure in a hyperactive way is usually NOT doing it just for orgasm or sexual sensations. It is usually a sign of hypercompulsive sexual desire and often other, deeper, unrelated psychological problems.
The bad news?
The REAL problem men are concerned about is genuine. Many women resort to masturbation, either using a “toy” or otherwise, simply because they cannot climax during sex.
The reasons women report that they are NOT able to orgasm with their partner during sexual intercourse?
In a highly publicized sex survey conducted in late 2012, the top reasons women privately reported preferring a sex toy like a vibrator over partner sex were as follows.
1 – Your male partners climaxed too quickly. It’s no wonder sexual stamina and staying power continue to be the number one complaint women make about bad sex.
2 – His partners were “doing it wrong”. Believe it or not, especially with men under 30, lack of sexual ability is one of the most common reasons why a woman is unable to orgasm and ultimately resorts to using an assistant like another vibrator. late, in private. (often when our man has fallen asleep or the next morning when he is gone)
3 – Poor compatibility between the “parts of the body”. Many men are simply not adequately gifted to satisfy their partners during sexual intercourse. The truth is that around 80% of women have a hard time reaching orgasm due to size or stamina issues with their current partners. They can’t get to the right places … and even if they are, they can’t last long enough to bring her to orgasm.
Many women are simply unwilling to commit any longer to the “climax” part of the sexual experience, and will resort to making sure they get their own release, often on our own!
Lastly, sex toys DO WORK! With so many myths and misinformation about the female orgasm, the truth is that over 90% of women report being able to orgasm each and every time when they use a sex toy or accessory.
Compare this to the abysmally bad rates that women report that they can climax during “real” sex, it is no wonder that many of us now seem “addicted” to our erotic helpers and prefer more “alone” time of what we let you know.