There are several forms of female orgasm that sexologists point out today. According to the location of an orgasm, there are four physiological forms: clitoris, vaginal, uterine (the orgasm of the cervix) and perineal, as well as several pathological: oral, rectal (or anal) and nipple.

An orgasm is a complex psychophysiological process, which is based on corresponding processes in the brain. Stimulation of specific pleasure zones in the brain leads to an objective display of an orgasm. These zones light up under the influence of impulses that pass through the female reproductive organs. The motor activity of the woman’s body resembles seizures. In some cases, the body tenses and stretches, the pelvis rises and the whole body arches supported by the back of the head and heels, the hands tighten and stretch, the jaws clench, the eyes clench. they close tightly. In other cases, the body arches, wiggles, makes sudden movements, hands and legs make sudden chaotic movements, the head turns in all directions. All this is accompanied by sound effects (crying, screaming, sobbing, wailing, gnashing of teeth, as well as sounds muffled by force of will or by spasm of speech muscles, moans, sighs, etc.). Sometimes separate words and incoherent sentences slip out of the mouth. A spasm occurs, which is a fairly sharp contraction of the muscles of the vagina, uterus, perineum, and other muscles of the small pelvis. Usually a girl who has not given birth and has a well-developed muscular system has 2-3 strong and several weak spasms, which gradually disappear. Women who have a weaker muscular system, are older and have given birth have only one strong spasm and 1-2 weak ones. All of these spasms can be felt in the man’s penis. The increased discharge from the vagina is sometimes so drastic that the penis loses the sensation of the vaginal walls. In rare cases, a large amount of liquid even overflows outside. During orgasm the nipples swell and harden (the nipple erection).

So how important is it that the male and female sex organs are the same size for a woman to be able to reach an orgasm? The size of the reproductive organs has always been given significant importance in sexology and in society. In reality, things are much simpler. First of all, a successful sex life does not require a particularly large penis. It is well known that a woman can experience four types of orgasms, three of which (clitoris, vaginal and perineal) do not depend at all on the size of the male genitalia. The fourth type of orgasm, uterine, requires the penis to be of a certain length, but quite moderate, since most women have a relatively shallow cervix. There are no correlations between a man’s total body size, that is, the size of a man’s penis, and the size of a woman’s vagina. Anatomical disconformity can occur only when there is an obvious vaginal pathology (its underdevelopment, scar stenosis due to previous injuries, burns, etc.). In all other cases, the male and female sex organs present a functional system, in which the vagina can stretch a lot if a man’s penis is large, and on the contrary, it can contract and tightly wrap a small penis.

So what is a clitoral orgasm? There used to be a widespread opinion that this type of orgasm is characteristic of very young women and as women age the orgasm moves to the vagina. However, this is not the case. The clitoral orgasm can be characteristic of any woman regardless of her age, constitution, etc.

To achieve a clitoral orgasm, stimulation of the clitoris is necessary. Women, whose most common orgasm is that of the clitoris, can almost never achieve it if they have sex in the most common missionary position. The clitoris remains outside the area of ​​stimulation. When having sex in the missionary position, the necessary stimulation of the clitoris is achieved by its contact with the back of the penis, for which the penis must be inserted at an angle (from top to bottom). It is possible if the distance between the clitoris and the entrance to the vagina is normal (about 1 inch). If the clitoris is higher, the penis will not reach it. In this case, it is necessary to change the position or apply small monotonous stimulating movements to the clitoris with the finger during foreplay and intercourse itself. The head of the clitoris is rich in blood vessels and nerve endings, so stimulating it with the hand must be very light and sensitive. Sometimes it is helpful to use petroleum jelly or moisten the finger by inserting it into the vagina. If the head of the clitoris is too sensitive, the finger stimulation can be transferred higher. These parts of the clitoris are hidden more deeply and therefore the stimulation can be stronger. Women with the clitoral type of orgasm will not enjoy having sex from behind. The following position is much more acceptable: start having sex in the classic missionary position and then bring the woman’s legs together, so that the penis stimulates the clitoris with each friction. You can switch places: a man at the bottom and a woman at the top. The signs of clitoral orgasm are a significant increase in the size of the clitoris (an erection) and its temperature rising.

The second type of female orgasm is vaginal, or commonly known as a G-spot orgasm. The erogenous area in this case is the lower third of the front wall of the vagina, which requires a special technique that involves pressing hard on a penis. against the front wall of the vagina during friction. You can also practice small rubs that are not deep and that affect only the lower part of the vagina, which would intensify the impact on the lower third of the front wall of the vagina. There are also cases of combined orgasm or clitoral-vaginal orgasm. To achieve this, try simultaneously stimulating both the clitoris and the front wall of the vagina during foreplay, and simultaneously stimulating both erogenous zones with your penis or hand during intercourse.

To achieve any type of orgasm, it is necessary that the corpora cavernosa of the clitoris are filled with blood to the maximum, and the lower part of the vagina is lined with muscles strongly connected to the corpora cavernosa. By contracting these muscles, a woman not only intensifies the filling of her own corpora cavernosa by contracting the base of the penis during intercourse, but also complicates the outflow of blood from the corpora cavernosa thus intensifying the partner’s erection and creating pleasurable sensations. additional.

Unfortunately, these important muscles don’t always work to their full potential. Some women have low power and some women do not use them properly. The job of the sexologist is to teach a woman to use these muscles in both cases. The power of any crossed skeletal muscle increases with exercise, so women must do a special sexual exercise: flexing the main constrictor muscle of the vagina over and over again on a daily basis.

The lower third of the vagina and the perineal muscles play a very important role in the body. They form an orgasmic sleeve, the contractions of which (5-12 contractions with an interval of 0.8 seconds) create the vaginal orgasm. After an orgasm, the vaginal sleeve and the walls relax quickly. With the vaginal form of orgasm, a woman can experience pleasure in any position.

During uterine orgasm, the contractions of the uterus start from its base and are transferred throughout the body. The force of uterine contractions is equal to the force of orgasm. This orgasm is known by the so-called “suction effect”, when the cervix “sticks” to the upper part of the vagina, after which the uterus returns to its original position.

This type of orgasm requires stimulation of the cervix. If a penis is not very long or if the vagina is too large, the penis may not reach the cervix. In this case, the woman must lie on her back and pull her legs towards the stomach, which considerably shortens the vagina. Another option is for a man to lie on his back and for a woman to squat on top of him. Sometimes the cervix is ​​not located in the posterior cul-de-sac of the uterus, but faces forward. To put the uterus back in place, you need to change the position so that the woman is lying on her stomach or on her side. In this position, the penis is not placed in the posterior cul-de-sac, but in the anterior one. If a woman is obese, intercourse is only possible in the position where the woman is on her side with her legs tightly bent at the hip joints or in a classic Bozeman position when a woman is on her knees supported by her forearms and a man is on his knees behind her, commonly known as doggy style. This same position is almost the only possible position to have sex if a man is obese.

The technique of sexual intercourse to achieve this type of orgasm consists of a man performing deep frictions, rhythmically stimulating the cervix and the posterior cul-de-sac of the uterus. Although you should avoid hitting the cervix too hard.

The fourth and very rare type of orgasm is the perineal orgasm. Nerve impulses begin in the perineum when it enters a state of vibration. Women with this type of orgasm sometimes experience it while riding a horse, bicycle, or motorcycle. The technique of sexual intercourse consists of stimulating the lower part of the back wall of the vagina with the head of the penis.

So what happens to a woman after sexual intercourse? The sexual arousal of women gradually decreases and, because of this, women are sensitive to the sexual indifference of men after intercourse is over. There are many complaints about men who switch to routine conversations right away or even fall asleep. These complaints express the need for women in post-intercourse caresses. These caresses should not be of a sexual nature and therefore should not be aimed at stimulating the erogenous zones, but on the contrary, they should consist of stimulating the non-erogenous zones of the woman’s body. The psychological content of these caresses is the display of gratitude, tenderness, emotional relaxation. At the same time, during post-intercourse fondling, a woman shows her appreciation for a man and her appreciation of him as a sexual partner. Every man during and after sexual intercourse has a hidden need to receive the evaluation of his actions by a woman. He becomes for his self-assertion but at the same time a man especially vulnerable to any kind of reproach. This is why it is important for a woman to express any concerns she may have about foreplay and intercourse itself at any time, but not immediately after sex. At this time, a woman’s evaluation should be positive no matter what. Keep in mind that this is not only the final assessment of intimacy that night, but also the encouragement for the future. A man will always want to measure up to the woman’s assessment, especially if he was slightly above the objective assessment. Of course, sometimes life takes over and a husband or wife still has to get up after being intimate and go to take care of everyday things, but psychologically the best state of being after sex is sleep. A woman should always fall asleep before a man, resting in his embrace and not the other way around.

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