No one says that breakups are easy to handle and that doing something about them is easy too, but it is important that people try to socialize as much as possible. It is a great opportunity to forget about the past and meet new people and, who knows, maybe a new partner. Film festivals, craft fairs, art fairs, etc. they should be considered a lot, as they will fill the minds of lovers with positive things and lighten the load.

However, when you are ready to start moving on with your life, the questions of your friends and family will be the most painful for you. This will happen especially in the case that your ex is really very close to the family. Therefore, you will have to tell them that you ended the relationship and that being bombarded with “why” and “how” will not make it any easier.

Moving on is not the answer

Even if they tell you to move to make yourself feel better, in your heart you will wonder if you can get it back. This is a terrible state of confusion that certainly doesn’t make you feel good at all. You are the only one who knows why you broke up with your ex and it is you who has the answer to all these problems. So if you want to get back together with your ex, you still have a good chance of doing so, because compared to the usual forms of breakup that involve fighting, cursing, and worse, you have parted ways for amicable reasons. This means that your heart and your ex’s are still open.

Going forward

Depending on the feedback you receive, make sure you are not overdoing it at all. Don’t act unnatural as this will be a deal breaker in such sensitive situations where only emotions flow and how you deal with creating the right mood is important. Look at it this way: Both of their feet hurt and they can’t move fast, so they decide to do it step by step to reduce the pain. Actually, this is a good comparison for this situation. Once they get closer, they will feel more comfortable with each other again, as the pressure will have gradually dissipated.

Make sure you touch on those sensitive issues that you were never able to talk about and find a solution together. Talk to your ex and try to be understanding and patient. At this moment, if you are honest, have an open heart and mind, your emotions will show through every pore and thus it is guaranteed that the love you will feel for your ex will bring the two of you back together.

Tips and Warnings

Everything related to the old relationship should be kept in a box and the box should be thrown away or placed in a place that is difficult to access. If people are always bombarded with reminders of their failed relationship, it will only make them more depressed and angrier and they won’t be able to stop thinking about it.

There is always the need to contact the ex and even if the need is very strong, no one should try to give in to it unless they are completely healed inside. If people decide to open the doors to make contact, this will only cause the wounds that they had in the past.

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