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For centuries, humans have been dealing with circumstances and issues, be it relationships, money, and other things that have an effect on our lives. Unfortunately, almost 97% of the population deals with these problems externally. When I say externally, they try to change their situations and how others treat them by trying to do something outside of themselves, but to no avail. Can you somehow relate to what I’m saying? The best example is when you see something you don’t like about a person, like an attitude or a habit. Then try telling them about it and asking them to change. Eventually, you will notice that as you focus on your problem, it tends to get worse and more problems and headaches occur.
This problem has been a mystery to me for many decades. Just to give you an idea, I have read and listened to so many self help, religious and even “new thoughts” books and audio books. Not to mention joining religious organizations and groups. I have struggled and failed almost my entire life. These things seem to be fine, based on what the norm and the culture told us. I’ve read about people getting good results on the helpful tools and groups I mentioned, but the fact is, it didn’t work for me.
You may be doing well in some areas of your life, but some parts are really slowing down your momentum, which is outrageous. And the most common problem for most people is dealing with relationships. It could be your spouse, relative, friend, neighbor, or a bum on the street corner. Still, your words and actions will always have a mental or emotional impact on you that you wish you could change.
I recently finally found a REAL solution to this problem that has been haunting me for so many years. And now I’m going to share this with you. First let me tell you something very important. Most of us may know this, but we have been ignoring its power. YOU ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR EVERYTHING THAT IS HAPPENING IN YOUR LIFE RIGHT NOW! Yes, you read it right. You might say, “What the hell are you talking about, Paul? Are you serious? Are you implying that I caused these people to hurt me, when it’s clearly their fault and I haven’t done anything wrong to them?” Well, my answer is a resounding YES!
I think you must have heard of the so-called “Law of Attraction”. If you haven’t, I think you can check out Rhonda Byrne’s “The Secret,” Joe Vitale’s “The Pull Factor,” or Wallace Wattles’ “The Science of Getting Rich.” It gives you an overview of this law. as real as any other law of nature, such as the Law of Gravity, the Law of Cause and Effect, and others. The Law of Attraction is primarily defined as “like attracts like”. Whatever is happening in your mind, accompanied by a feeling, you will attract as it directly gives the order to your subconscious, which in turn manifests your thoughts into reality. Therefore, your current situation is just the result of your past thoughts and actions. This has been scientifically proven by the quantum physicist, so don’t get me. wrong. I have tested it personally. I have experienced it and that is why I am confident in sharing this with you. I’m not going to go into more detail on this, if you want to know more about the law of attraction you can just Google it or check out the book I mentioned above Fri. But for now I will assume that you are already well informed about said law, since it has been very popular recently.
Now back to the topic of this article. How did I solve my problem in dealing with difficult people? Can you really change them without telling them to? Once I have learned that we have this divine power. I immediately put it into practice. Let me share the basic steps that have been very effective for me. I have used the power to imagine. I learned these steps from the teachings of Neville Goddard. This is very powerful in using the law of attraction.
Here are the steps:
1. Sit in a comfortable chair or lie down on your bed. Relax your mind and body and let go of any negative thoughts or worries.
2. Relax until you feel that your sleepiness makes you not want to move any part of your body. Once you are in that state, it means that your power of imagination or subconscious is already open to suggestions.
3. Start thinking about the person you want to change. Imagine them treating you the way you want them to. Treat them with loving thoughts and words about their current half-asleep state. It doesn’t take long to figure it out. A few minutes will do. Once you feel it as real as if you have touched their hand or heard them speak to you. Should be enough.
4. Wake up and go back to your normal routine and believe that your wish has come true. You will be surprised how powerful these steps are. Trust me.
It is important to know that change happens internally. Once your subconscious received it through your imagination, the universe will begin to adjust everything around you to grant your request. If you have any doubts as to whether what I am telling you is true, try those steps and you be the judge.
Note that this is most powerful when you practice it before you go to sleep at night. It is even more effective when you fall asleep while thinking about this loving imagination because the powerful subconscious is mostly at its peak when you are sleeping.
This process can also be applied to other areas of your life, such as finances, work, and other things.
I’d love to read about your results if these steps worked for you.