Surely you have dreamed of the day when you could talk to a woman and leave her completely speechless and intrigued afterwards. Unfortunately, that day has yet to come true. Here are some simple things you can do to change this and put the power back in her hands.

call her

In simple terms, “calling a woman” involves pointing out to her that you have noticed how she behaves when she does something: unacceptable, immature, indecisive, flaky, etc. You can choose to do this in a very direct way or use humor to be more fun. If you are just starting out, then the best step is to state the obvious (without trying to make it funny or funny) so that she can realize that you are paying attention and not like all the other men in her life who let her get away with it. with bad behavior.

Here are some examples:

1. She does not answer his phone calls

Leave her a voicemail and give her instructions on how to use the phone, “Hey Amanda, I just wanted to leave you this voicemail to tell you to press the green button to answer the phone. Now we have that.” solved, I hope to speak with you soon”.

2. Makes a sarcastic comment directed at you

“Was that sarcasm? You’re out of practice, right? It helps if you don’t frown when you say it,” or “Too sarcastic?”, or “Was that you in the classroom when I was studying?” sarcasm101 in high school? You’ve come so far since then!” *high fives her*

3. She gets sidetracked after you ask her a question.

“Now that was a brilliant way of not answering my question. So now that you’ve bought yourself some time, what’s your answer?”

give him a challenge

This implies that you set up the situation in such a way that SHE is the one who has to work to gain your attention and approval. This is often surprising and refreshing to a woman because she is not handing her all of your attention and approval on a silver platter simply because she finds her physically attractive. In the beginning, the harder you have to work to get her attention and approval, the more likely she is to appreciate it.

Examples of how you can do this include:

1. Ask challenging questions

Ask her questions like “So what’s your excuse for being alone on a Friday night?” “What makes you think I’m going to answer your question?”; or “Okay, so how hard is it for you to decide between your hair up or down in the morning?”

2. Play together and see who wins

Compete on who has the most interesting story on a particular topic; seeing a couple together and role-playing what they might be saying to each other at any given moment; decide who plays the coolest musical instrument; etc.

3. Make him demonstrate or explain something to you

Ask her: what makes her so interesting; why he speaks in a particular way; why he wears a certain accessory; why buses should run faster; why order a “double fat free latte without foam” instead of a latte; or why the president should be the president, etc.

My point is that if you want to learn how to render a woman speechless, it doesn’t matter what you say to call her out or what you do to challenge her: it’s the fact that you just DO IT! You know why? Because 95% of the other men who talk to her and interact with her don’t. And by doing so, you put yourself in that top 5% which leaves a very strong and convincing impression on her mind.

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