Looking for a potential husband, maybe you are looking to improve the one you are married to? Maybe you are a husband looking to improve yourself? Regardless of your reason, wouldn’t the following qualities be a good starting point?
7) Practical – Guys, are you useful? What is useful? Practical is when you take steps to solve a problem, useful is when you change a light bulb without complaining, useful is when you take out the trash (your idea, not hers). Wives like their husbands to be useful; It is not difficult, be part of the solution, not the problem.
6) Provision-oriented – Please don’t get excited, it’s not about the husband making all the money. It is an attitude to help your wife fill in the gaps. She can’t do everything, so help her! Are you busy with the children? Leave 10 minutes of the ball game and clean the dishes, fold the clothes or whatever. You don’t even need to be a big help, you just need to show that you are trying.
5) Modesty – Nobody likes an arrogant man, there is no place for that in marriage. Show humility, when you are wrong, admit it and do it humbly. You will probably be surprised and your reaction may be unpredictable, but inside you will glow with admiration.
4) Adaptability – Guys, marriage is an ever-changing world and you have to adapt favorably to those changes or you will find yourself wondering what you are doing and how you got there. If you look closely at your wife, filtering out years of environmentally induced behavioral changes, you will see that brilliant woman you fell in love with years ago. Let me explain further: my love and my feelings for my wife have not changed since the day we were married. However, our relationship has changed as a necessity in the face of the changes that surround us. Time constraints, children’s needs, financial obligations, etc. each requires a level of effort that takes time away from our relationship. We no longer have the luxury of spending hours alone together. Your success as a husband will largely depend on your attitude toward life’s adaptations. Lastly, don’t let the tail wag the dog, don’t let your feelings towards life changes affect your feelings towards your wife, leave this in your heart.
3) Sensitivity – You may forget what you learned in high school: Most women don’t look for a husband who never cries. A sensitive husband perceives his wife’s needs and seeks to satisfy them. Sensitivity to your wife will open doors of communication and intimacy that you never thought possible. Give it a try, get that chip off your shoulder and show it some sensitivity.
two) Loyalty / Loyalty – Show him that you’re in this for the long haul (notice I said show him). How can you Show someone to whom you are faithful and loyal? Do you keep your commitments, no matter how small? Are you honest with your wife? Do you keep her updated on your activities? Do you include it in your world? She is interested, show her that it is not just about you, but her as well and you will get the benefits of her safety.
1) Good listener – This could be the biggest challenge for husbands. You see, by nature, men tend to be productivity-oriented and women tend to be more relational. Men often make the mistake of trying to solve their wife’s “problems.” She doesn’t want you to solve anything; she wants you to listen to her (really listen) and show her that you are really interested in what she is saying. She wants you to feel what she feels and to live what she experiences. When you learn to truly listen to your wife and keep your mouth shut, your marriage will flourish.
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