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Alright girls. We have all been there. The relationship we have is amazing, the guy is perfect, but the sex has become boring. Paint by numbers has more variety than your sex life. It’s time to do some Extreme Makeover: Bedroom Edition. If going out lingerie shopping isn’t your thing, and I know it’s not my thing. I’m serious, my man tells me that I look sexier in a tank top and shorts than anything else I wear, so why would he mess with me in a nice thing? So if the appearance of the sex isn’t what you need to change, you might want to tweak the inner workings a bit.
The next time you’re home and your man is at work, watch some adult entertainment. See what turns you on. Once you start feeling a little hot and upset, call him at work. When he answers, say something dirty. Skip the hello and how are you, and jump right in. You have it where you want it. He’s in a public place, and he can’t do anything about the feelings you might evoke in him. But he can listen. He trusts me, when he gets home, it won’t be the dinner he wants on the table.
If her job is one where she can’t talk on the phone, you could send her a dirty text with a naughty image. Anything out of the ordinary will work just fine.
However, don’t let this become predictable. If you do this every day at 3:15, then you will lose effectiveness. Try different things. Call one day, email another. Leave a voicemail on his cell phone. Hide a dirty note in his pants and then later in the day email him and tell him to check his pockets. Be as creative as possible.
Once he gets home, repeat one thing he saw or heard at work to get him back to thinking about how hot and upset he was then. Start taking your shirt off in the kitchen or living room, keep saying things you said before. Eventually he will lose it and you will have the hottest sex of your life.
Give it a try. You will see how fun it can be.