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Like being a parent, being a grandparent is a difficult but very rewarding role. If you have recently had a grandchild, it would be natural to expect that your child (the new parent) will be able to come to you for a lot of help, advice, and support. They need you to be there, but don’t be disappointed if they don’t show as much enthusiasm as you might expect. Remember, being a new parent takes a lot of calm.
To keep family relationships stronger than ever, here are 5 common grandparent mistakes to avoid:
Interfere with the way your children raise their children
Times have changed and so have parenting styles. Try not to judge the small and big decisions your child makes when it comes to your own child. Even if you disagree on something, don’t force your opinion on the new parents. You can make a suggestion lightly, but if not, just give them support and compliment them on their efforts. Remember, your job is to be a grandparent, not a parent.
Forgetting the word NO
People say that the difference between being a grandparent and a parent is that what they do for the grandchild is a choice, not an obligation. New parents will need all the help they can get, especially during the first few months. You can volunteer your time when you are free, but learn to say no, don’t feel obligated to spend all your time with them. The same goes for your gifts and finances.
To be competitive
Both sets of grandparents will surely be excited about the arrival of the newest addition to the family; and many become competitive thinking “I am the best grandmother” or “The baby likes me more than his other grandfather.” Avoid this kind of thinking – it will only result in our children feeling alienated and your grandson feeling uncomfortable. Just think that the more loving and caring adults there are in the child’s life, the more he will grow to be good.
Ignore parental rules
After a few years, your grandson will start visiting you at your home more often and will even start spending nights there. You may have different rules in your home when it comes to children, but never ignore your parents’ rules at home. If they don’t allow candy after 7 at home, don’t give them any on yours and make it a secret so that you look cool. Respect the rules of your home.
Avoid These Common Grandparent Mistakes For An Ongoing And Harmonious Family Relationship!