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Making a guy commit is not the easiest thing for a woman to do. Not all men who claim to be in love are in a hurry to get down the aisle. In fact, many men who feel an emotional connection with a woman won’t even commit to something as seemingly innocent as exclusive dating. If you are involved with a man like this, you know you are facing endless frustration. Is there anything you can do or are you destined for a relationship that is always stuck in the dating phase? Actually, there are simple steps any woman can take that will make the man in his life feel the need to take things to the next level.
The first step in getting a man to commit is to not commit as much as he does. If he has been chasing you for an engagement ring for some time or has left constant reminders around the house like wedding magazines, he should stop immediately. If a woman is constantly pushing for something a man isn’t ready to give, she will resist more and more.
You have to give the impression that you have no interest in anything more serious than what you currently share. However, you have to be very careful how you present this to him. You don’t want to declare that you’ve decided singleness is your new passion. You need to be more subtle than that and allow your actions to speak for you. Do this by making more plans that don’t include him. Go out with your friends more and be less available to him. Don’t always answer each and every time he calls. Taking a step more often gives the best results and includes something like going away for the weekend with a girl and being too busy to call her while you’re away. The moment he feels that you are running away, he will get more serious with you.