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On a recent episode of Dr. Phil, he invited the founders of Love Systems (formerly known as The Mystery Method) and Ross Jeffries (founder of Speed Seduction) to talk about their businesses, techniques for picking up women, and basically giving everyone has an idea what it is all about.
Dr. Phil seemed non-confrontational, given his show’s target demographic and the fact that the episode was titled “Women Beware,” and he compared learning how to meet women to the fact that women wear push-up bras. , makeup and take a long time. to work on your appearance. If women can take steps to become more attractive, why shouldn’t men be able to learn the same?
The guys from Mystery Method defended their method, claiming that people have to learn a good way to approach. If the way you start a conversation is boring and uncreative, chances are you will tune out and the girl will not get a chance to meet you. Both women on the show said that the Mystery Method techniques were really interesting and caught their attention, and that they were very different from what they were used to hearing and who approached them (drunk guys and sleazy guys).
Then Ross Jeffries appeared and Dr. Phil seemed to be more aggressive towards him, perhaps because the image he portrays in his advertising is misogynistic. But Jeffries has always claimed that the way to draw attention to his product is through really frank and offensive locker room conversation, while the actual tone of the product is much more positive. Jeffries commented that the producers of Dr. Phil do the same, taking the most provocative clips of the shows for people to see (but this rebuttal was removed from the show). He also went on to attack the Mystery Method company, saying they teach techniques that are destructive to a woman’s self-esteem and can have long-term negative repercussions.
Actually, despite the fact that there is a lot of negative press surrounding these groups and the idea of men learning to pick up women, and the fact that competing seduction gurus often engage in endless battles with each other, the Fact is underneath all of this are some good common sense ideas. Both methodologies (Mystery Method and Speed Seduction) emphasize improving yourself and your lifestyle to become a more attractive person. They both place an emphasis on setting limits on who you are and what kind of behavior you will accept from people. The Mystery Method relies on telling interesting stories that portray attractive qualities about you, which is something most great people do anyway. I’m sure many of you have friends who tell the same kind of stories the first time they meet new people, it’s just that you aren’t really aware that you are using the same stories over and over again. . Speed Seduction, on the other hand, teaches you to learn certain patterns and phrases to make your speech more persuasive and interesting. When you look at some of the romantics that have been around over the years, people like Casanova, you will find that they use the same kind of descriptive language, they just didn’t consciously try to learn and apply techniques to acquire this way of speaking. speech. Or maybe they did?
The general reaction from the studio audience was quite positive, and as the show progressed and guests had a chance to explain their side of the story, they began to gain the public’s trust. Mystery Method’s Savoy later said there doesn’t have to be this negative image of the seduction community. If you have thought about improving your social skills, there is a lot of material and information available to help you. You don’t have to have money, looks, or fame to get the kind of success and social life you really want, you just have to make the decision to go out and socialize, and now you have the tools to help you get better.