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The perfect kiss will help lock you in with the man or woman of your dreams and put you in their memory banks forever! But how do you get the perfect kiss? Each person has different feelings about the way they like to be kissed. A general rule of thumb for the first kiss is to be gentle and brush your lips lightly, without sticking your tongue into your partner’s mouth like you’re playing hockey over tonsils.
Once you’re in a relationship, get out of your comfort zone and ask your partner what they think would be the perfect kiss. For many women and men too, it is important to set the mood for the perfect kiss. While rushing your loved one into a heated kiss when they walk in the door for the first time after work can be very stimulating and arousing, using this method every time can make your partner withdraw.
Have you ever noticed that your partner starts to avoid kissing you in little ways? Perhaps, you are looking for a kiss and he/she turns his/her cheek. Or when you lean in for the kiss, your partner crouches under you and makes some excuse, as if hearing someone at the door. Or maybe when you’re both in bed, your partner pretends to be asleep before your goodnight kiss.
If you find yourself in any of these types of situations, here are some tips to help: First, you need to set the mood. Whether that means taking your arms, wrapping them around your partner and looking into their eyes for a brief moment, putting on some music you both love and snuggling on the couch, or dancing in the living room, just do it. Once the mood is set, gently take your partner’s face in your hands, using one of them to gently run your fingers through their hair lovingly, then gently kiss the surface of their lips, seeking nothing deeper. .
Once you’ve reached that point, gently pull back to look into your partner’s eyes again for a brief moment, before venturing back to the lips. Next, gently bring your lips back to your partner’s, bringing them slowly between yours with a gentle sucking motion. Do this for a short while before moving on to the next step. Remember, whatever you do, don’t stick your tongue in your partner’s mouth at the first touch. Once you’ve managed to massage your lips for a few minutes, gently slide your tongue into your partner’s mouth, letting her play with her tongue as if the two of you were dancing together.
Occasionally (but don’t overdo it), push your tongue deep into your partner’s mouth and then gently pull it back to mingle with their tongue again. This move can be very sexy and intoxicating when used correctly and during the right moment of the kiss. Don’t keep your tongue in your partner’s mouth all the time. Continue changing positions in the way you hold it, caressing your partner’s bottom without turning it into a sexual innuendo, and moving from dancing with your tongue to massaging your lips.
Stroke your partner’s hair again, cradle them in your arms while looking into your partner’s eyes, and then begin the kiss again. Once you master this, go back to asking your partner what they like and don’t like. Kissing is an art and each person has different preferences.