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The clitoris is the source of amazing pleasure for women, but being able to reliably stimulate it to orgasm can be a frustrating and infuriating experience for many beginners. Every woman’s clitoris is different and what worked for one woman won’t work for another. She can use all kinds of pressures, speeds, movements, rhythms, caresses, directions of movement and even the part of the body that she uses can vary, be it the penis, the fingers or the tongue that she uses.
Also, many sex manuals can be incredibly vague in their instructions on how to stimulate a woman to clitoral orgasm using her fingers. Many women report that “rubbing in a circular motion” is good, but when it’s time to do it and you have a real woman in front of you on the bed with her legs spread, your brain is suddenly assaulted by a myriad of possibilities. : speed – fast or slow? Movement: to the right or to the left? Pressure: light, heavy, medium? How wide of a circle should I make? Am I covering the clitoral hood in this or are we focusing strictly on the glans? When you get to the bottom of the glans, is it okay to brush the frenulum where the inner lips meet? Will doing this interrupt the rhythm? Is it even possible to create a rhythm when moving in a circle anyway? Is this just for fingers or will it work with my tongue too? Can I use saliva to wet my fingers or do I need lubricant?
Many experts say that these questions can be answered simply with practice. Every woman is different, so giving accurate answers is difficult. Also, many women change their preferences on a daily basis, preferring one pressure one day and another speed the next. You need to find your rhythm again each time anyway. So what additional guidance can be given?
Well, there is one particular method that has proven to be enormously effective and that is the Welcome Method. What I really like about this method is how super precise the instructions are. Let’s go for it!
1. The woman lies on her back on the bed, with her legs apart.
2. The man sits on his left side.
3. The man puts his left arm under his left leg so that his hand is supporting his left buttock.
4. Push the thumb of your left hand into the perineum (which is between the fork at the bottom of the vulva and the anus). This makes her feel comfortable and prevents her clitoris from moving too much.
5. He puts a lot of lubrication on her clit.
6. Bring your right hand over the top and place the tip of your right index finger directly on the glans clitoris.
7. Stroke the glans clitoris from dead center to the one o’clock position (11 o’clock from her point of view) and vice versa; this is a hit.
8. This blow should be done at a speed of 1-2 blows per second.
9. The maximum movement from neutral to the one o’clock position should be one half inch.
10. This will put her in a state of orgasmic ecstasy for as long as she wants, but she won’t climax. Whenever she wants you to let her climax, she talks dirty and dominates and tell her to go over the edge.
I believe that any sex manual should aspire to describe sexual techniques to this standard and level of detail. This would minimize the amount of wasted time men spend on trial and error approaches to putting more valuable instructions into action! I hope this information helps you give your woman the clitoral orgasm she’s always wanted!